What you need to know
Things You Should Know Before Attending A Private Reading, A Group Reading Or A Medium Demonstration
The first thing you should know before going to a medium demonstration or private reading is that psychic-mediums act as a human telephone to the spirit world, between you and the spirits. Unfortunately, they are a telephone without a dialtone; a psychic-medium cannot just call anyone from the spirit world with whom you want to talk to. Instead, you get whoever is on the other end when the psychic-medium “links” with the spirit world.
The psychic medium only wants you to answer: “Yes” or “No” or “I Understand” or “I Don’t understand”
You should know before going to a psychic-medium demonstration or private reading is that during a reading—whether it’s a three-minute reading or a one-hour reading—all you need to do is answer Yes or No . You don’t need to do much talking during a reading. Let the psychic-medium do the talking. You are there to listen.
If what the psychic-medium says doesn’t make sense to you, just say you don’t know or don’t understand what they are talking about. Don’t try to make it fit! Don’t try to make the message fit if it doesn’t. The psychic-medium will figure out what the message means without you interpreting it yourself.
At the same time, if the psychic-medium says that Frances is here and your mother’s name is Francine, don’t say you have no idea what they are talking about. Alternatively, if the psychic-medium says that your father is wearing a police uniform, but your father wore a security uniform, remember that you don’t have to be a psychic-medium to mix that one up—anyone could make that mistake. Keep in mind that the clarity of communication may be more like an AM radio station than a telephone. Small inaccuracies are expected. Don’t hold the psychic-medium to exact measurements.
Don’t feed the medium!
Moreover, you should know before going to a psychic-medium demonstration or private reading is a piece of advice “Don’t Feed The Medium!” If the psychic-medium tells you that your Uncle Charlie is present, don’t blurt out: “Oh, my goodness, my Uncle Charlie was a police officer who lost his leg in the war and died two years ago in a car accident!” Let the psychic-medium tell you these things. If you offer that information yourself, then you miss out on the excitement and validation you could gain if the psychic-medium was about to tell you those details.
Everyone present has an effect on the clarity of the messages coming through
You should know before going to a psychic-medium demonstration or private reading is that the person being read (the sitter), and anyone in the room (people attending the reading with the sitter or audience members in a demonstration), can affect the clarity of the messages.
In a reading, for instance, if you are skeptical, the messages might not be quite as clear as they could be if you were more open-minded. If you are fearful or angry, this low mental energy could inhibit the clarity of the messages. If you are on medication or abusing drugs or alcohol, your mental and emotional clarity could also affect the clarity of the messages.
Likewise, the entire audience can affect the clarity of the spirit communication during a psychic-medium demonstration. If the audience as a whole is very open, accepting and light-hearted, this helps the psychic-medium as it would help any speaker on stage. If the audience as a whole is skeptical, apathetic or angry, this can negatively affect the psychic-medium as it might affect any speaker in front of a group. Spirit communication is about energy – if the energy in the room is low, it makes it more difficult for the psychic-medium to elevate his or her energy to connect with spirit. If the energy is high, it can assist the psychic-medium to raise his or her energy and better communicate with the spirit.
We can all help psychic-mediums to have an extremely clear path while on stage, or in a private reading, by sending them our love and acceptance. Say a little prayer to help the psychic-medium receive perfect clarity in their communication. Don’t sit there with your arms folded and an angry look on your face. Lighten up. Relax. Have fun.